I did not let Coco go because I wasn't bonding or something like that, but because I needed to be an adult and prioritize my cat. Merry and Theros were gifts, and I cannot sell them. Cookie (fairy and kitty version) are sold out, and cannot be bought again. Venezia is way too expensive, my grail, and knowing Iple tendency to randomly discontinue dolls... Coco was the only one, sadly.
I hoped she would go fast, and I had seven (!!) people interested on her, the same day I posted her in a local group. She is going to a home with a guy who appears to be very kind, and owns all legit dolls (as far as I know, though). He even asked me if he could keep her name, and I said yes.
So I got thinking about why people tend to list dolls as rehomed or adopted instead of sold. And now I know. Coco she wasn't a simple object to me. She taught me so many things! Like sewing, photography... but most of all, that I could get anything if I put my work into it, even if it took me years of saving pennies. She taught me to never say something was "impossible". She was my princess, as cheesy as it may sound.
So no, I could not refer to her as sold. Because she was much more than a collectible. I cried when I washed her and redid her hot-glue, while packing her, while picking the gift eyes I would send... and then I realized that it was slightly easier to think of her as rehomed or adopted. It made me feel less bad about this.
BTW, I am keeping her eyes and wig, and the Cinderella shoes I had. Someday I will bring her back. Her character is not dead or something.
Just a warning. As I am moving soon (probably near end of April/early May), I had quite a few post already prepared... up to August, if I'm honest. So you will see some photos and posts with her in the upcoming months, even if she is not here anymore. I don't know if that will make things harder or easier. Probably the first one, to me.
Thank you for reading this, but I had to vent a little about my thoughts, and this blog is my place to do it. Random mindless and happier posts return this weekend, as scheduled ;)
While I'm sad that you had to let Coco go, I totally understand your reasons. Kitty comes first, because you can't leave a living, breathing creature behind when you move. No one will think badly of you for making the decision you did. And you're right, Coco will be the easiest to buy again. WithDoll does occasionally discontinue dolls, but they are usually limited editions with costumes; the basic doll generally turns up again in another costume or as a basic--or both. I routinely rehome dolls. It's the only way I can raise money to buy newer dolls. That doesn't mean I didn't love them at one time, but sometimes I need to move on to something else. It makes me happy to think that someone who can't afford to buy the doll new can buy one that has been pre-loved.
ReplyDeleteExactly: my cat is alive and that is much more important. I already talked to Withdoll: she is sold out because they will make a new body... and they told me that if I don't like it, they can sell me the old body.
DeleteI understand, and I don't dislike people rehoming dolls... it is just that I believe one thing is rehoming because one doesn't bond or like the doll, and another thing is doing it out of necessity. But oh well, I had to be an adult.
Thank you for the support <3
That must have been a really hard thing to do. I know you've had her for quite a while and I always see photos of her on your blog. She will be missed and sometimes you need to do what you need to do however it doesn't make things any easier. I hope you will be able to bring her back some day. In your shoes, I would have done the same to be honest. My cat means everything to me, especially now since I lost his sister in October, every day is a precious gift. (He has the same disease as her and will most likely go down the same route as her when his time comes.)
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like she is going to a great home and new adventures though so that's something of a comfort at least.
I am so sorry to read that about your kitties D: That must have been really painful.
DeleteThank you for being so understanding, and I hope the same, someday.
Oh dear Musume, it's so difficult to part with any doll, but one that was so much a part of your life must have been torture. Still I know if it came to the crunch between keeping a doll and helping my puppy Coco, he would win out every time. Just stay positive and once you're settled here, you can introduce us to another Coco through another of your little stories...it's something you can look forward to. :)
ReplyDeleteBig hugs,
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I know, but it still hurts. I do hope the same, though. For now, I'll have to hold on, though.
DeleteQue lata que no te haya quedado más remedio que venderla, pero a veces hay que hacer lo que hay que hacer y sería todo. Me alegra que al menos vaya a un buen hogar y que la hayas vendido rápido, a mí me cuesta montón vender muñecos acá. Imagino lo duro que debe haber sido.
ReplyDeleteEstoy segura que Coco volverá.
Yo también. Me alegro porque fue rápido y menos doloroso, y como había muchos interesados no sentí la que despreciaran. Espero que vuelva.
DeleteI can completely relate to this post as I am in a similar situation with having to sell dolls to make money and yes, some of them will be 'sold' and I won't miss them or even think that much about them afterwards, but others will be rehomed or adopted out and I will miss them, and will think of them fondly in the future, but needs must as they say.
ReplyDeleteI think that Coco will definitely come back in the future at some point or if not, you will always have fond memories of her and how she helped you to grow. She is a lovely girl and it will be nice for your readers to see her on your blog in the coming months.
Big hugs Sharon xx
I am sorry you also need to do this D: Needs must, honestly.
DeleteHugs, and thank you for your kindness.
I feel with you, but Kitty comes first of course. You can always get a new Coco, or even get your old one back, but your wonderful cat is unique. I hope your moving will go smoothly and everything will turn out great.
ReplyDeleteThank you, but yes, he comes first.
DeleteI hope so as well, on both accounts!
It is always hard to say goodbye, I feel with you there! But there is always hope - and it feels like Coco is moving to a loving home and I really liked that the new owner asked if he could keep the name Coco.
ReplyDeleteHope that the move goes well for you and your cute kitty!
Me too, I liked that as well. Thank you for the good vibes!
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